The most horrible situations when you get all googly eyed when you see your perfect girl but then you are filled with a sad longing and envy when she wraps herself around someone else’s arms (may a piano drop one on him, right now, please Gods! ) and they approach you and she introduces you to them as your "friend".
To avoid the friend’s zone is to never get trapped in it in the first place. When you start to get too close to the person of your dreams then just back off and see other people and preoccupy your time with everything but that person ( yeah right, as if that would ever work !.... ) to avoid becoming the ‘quickly turn around and let's hope he didn't saw me’ one.
That is, if you can stand the fact that you may lose or not develop a very important friendship. But then, when they are dating someone, don’t just wait for them to break up, try your best to spoil their relation, smear his name, spread vicious rumors and keep some distance, but not to distant, so you can "be there for her" to confort her and strike on the rebound.
But that is if you let yourself near the periphery of the friend’s zone. So how do you make the moves on someone who has become a friend?
They would probably think you’re joking and laugh it off when you do and humor is always good when you are making a complete fool of yourself. But the best time to ever try the moves on a friend is probably when you have had gallons of alcohol or, at least, you can pretend to have it in your system because then you have an excuse for the next day, that you can’t remember a thing.
See, doing it after a long lapse of time would make the friendship difficult and awkward. Then it may be best to do it when you just realize that you really like a person and the friendship is just fresh, in which case you shouldt ask that person out, because even if you're rejected at least you may still have a friendship.
And you can start all over again. Right !?!....
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